You are not a property, get a grip

Disclaimer: This is going to offend some people who are in a relationship. Relationship in this case means dating exclusively (means you are seeing one person only but not together), boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged & it-is-complicated-but-he/she-is-mine. Nothing concrete by law, which in other words married. But hey, even married people know how to chill.

Number one on the pet peeve list: People who think they are not humans.

Let me reassure you, that you are a human. I think it is effort on my side (and to those people who happened to chance on my profile in the morning, you must think I am crazy hahaha) because here goes:

As you can see, it gets more kronik as you scroll down.

Why don't want to write his/her name on your forehead sekali?

IMO, it doesn't scream to the world about your love/dedication/loyalty to this relationship. It screams one word: IN to the SE to the CURE! What does it spell: INSECURE! Yes, only people who are insecure need to validate their non-concrete relationship to the whole world, making you seem like you're a non-living thing. Kesian. No need okay? Your pictures on the feed will be very clear that he is your boyfriend/fiance and no bitch can steal him away from you. After all, real men can't be stolen (vice versa for the guys). So chill. I mean, your couple picture as your profile picture is also a clear sign.

Okay let's look at my original profile before I edited to those crazy ones above:

Blue: I usually love putting our couple picture but when I tengah feeling feeling solo shot, I still want to include Baobei inside hahaha.

Red: The only time I can actually call myself a Mrs because school still calls me Ms Renny. Also, some men don't get it (ala ala, the credit card line haha)

Green: MY mantra since I feel in love with Baobei in 2013 which has always my what'sapp status. Editing the 'satu' to 'suatu' doesn't make it your thing. Especially if you have the cheek to use it on your social media.

Yellow: Something that will stay for another month because I am newly wed leh. So give me chance okay. But yes, married.

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Number two pet peeve: Shared accounts is especially annoying when you just got together.

WHY WHY WHY! Why can't you have a separate account like every other normal people? Don't worry okay because once you're married you will share a lot of things like house, bank accounts and babies. No one can run away from that. So save the sharing for other important things. After all you have your own set of friends and backbone right? And you will not die if you don't share this one thing right? Because I haven't heard in the news of anyone dying from that before so you're safe.

Or you make your boyfriend delete his account or they do not own an account of their own so you add their name to your account (vice versa for boys). Ummm? Belum apa apa, dah give your share so easily ke? He didn't die without having a social media before, I am pretty sure he won't die now. So need to use your account to post love messages to you when he can tell you personally okay? Come kish.

Which brings to my last pet peeve...

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Number three pet peeve: Delete sesuka hati kau then lepas tu add dengan muka yang tebal nak mampos / Delete when you feel like it and add back like as if nothing has happened.

Do you know what it reflects on your or your relationship? Gaduh jek (When having an argument) tukar (change) profile picture, delete their name off  your profile lah. Then when da kiss and make up, change everything back to normal. EEEEE YOU GOT SO MUCH TIME TO AIR YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY TO THE WHOLE WORLD IS IT? 

Worst still, deleting/blocking/unfollowing your partner then add them back when all is right in the world again. How old are you again? 10? This is the I-don't-friend-you phase, is it? Dammit it man, you both have a plan to eventually get married to each other some day (I mean, if you have a relationship with no plans for the future, then don't be in one) so have some respect for each other. I may not love, love my husband when we argue but he is still my husband and I married him for a reason. 

And it is not one social media you know? Every platform of social media available that you do which ummm everyone on your list can see. Or are you so oblivious to the fact that people can see you adding back as friend again/ following your "other half" back. And that, is just a tad embarrassing IMO. I am embarrassed for you because you are doing such an immature thing which you obviously didn't think it through. Baru relationship/engaged already like this. Marriage how? Don't like then jatuhkan talak? (Divorce?)

Please lah, whatever happens behind closed doors, let it remain behind closed doors. Don't need to show the whole world how ugly things can get. Because it is like you ludah but jilat balik (spit and lick back). That's just damn gross both literally and figuratively.

Here's a tip: You're having an argument? Don't go into social media. Simple hor? Don't need to tunjukkan perasaan on social media like a 3 year old spoilt brat.

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Oh, if you are happy with whatever situation you're stuck in above, be happy. You don't need my approval. If you're happy and you know it, well know it. Remember that the end goal is marriage, family of your own and always be blessed with good things in life.

And I happened to stumble upon some people's social media who is obviously not happy with me/Baobei. Let me say something: May the hatred in you die and you will learn to live happily with the fact that I don't like you/I am thankful for what I have. Get over yourself.

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