The one Dancing Dollies jadi keyboard warrior...

So, I am so busy with the wedding and shifting, and still have not finished planned my honeymoon which is why I had to give my Friday #MPKvirtualdateat1213pm a miss. Then, I got this:

"I don't understand which part about buying in the open market being lots of fun unless you're damn loaded. Which you're not cos that cash portion you need to have is typical of the type of unit you're looking at.
While you're at it, there is no need to be condescending towards other people who are "refreshing the bto page", like you, they too want to have a house they can afford.
Stop trying to act like your ideas are damn original when they are not. You're making yourself seem so desperate to cover up your budget wedding with your tacky looking wedding card which good god, reminds me of a Rock Klasik Vol 15 cd compilation cover that you can purchase at Suria Records.
I have nothing against small weddings. But if you can have a go at others, we can have a go at yours too." Dancing Dollies aka Keyboard Warrior

And I actually very malas nak layan orang macam gini but it was too amusing to not reply this person, so I did (my comment was so long I had to cut into 2 parts to post but...)

Dear Terasa Nak Mampos,

I am actually very busy at this period of time because I nak kahwin and belum fully plan my honeymoon with my soon-to-be husband but your comment on my blog post is just too hard to ignore. 

You don't understand what is fun? My assumption is 1)You have never bought a house (but it seems awak Kakak-Kakak BTO) 2) Resale house is not your thing, therefore you tak pernah experience the process of buying from open market. Part 'unless you're damn loaded' is not true. HDB just needs to loan you a reasonable amount + combined CPF + grant (for first timers & stay near parents) for you to buy a house that fits your budget. Dah, it is that simple. Ni bukan era COV. Part 'Which you're not', kalau I reveal how much I earn a month (not inclusive of my soon-to-be husband), nanti you kater I action pulak. So it is rezeki masing-masing. Just learn to bersyukur with what you have and mampu ok? We didn't buy the house not because we tak mampu but we have plans to buy a brand new bike which 3/4 will be paid in cash and we have a few holidays we want to go in 2015. So jangan macam faham sini.

In this post where I mentioned 'the obsessed girl', I was talking about me. If you read my entry about 'The one with the unexpected house', I blogged about my experience of sales of balance flats with HDB and how I kept refreshing the page until the dateline to see how many people applied for the unit I wanted. Plus if you are able to use words like 'condescending', you will be able to understand basic English like ‘girl’ is singular, not plural. So I wasn't talking about other people, I was talking about myself. If you weren't so judgmental about people, then you won't terasa like you are now. 

I am not sure what "ideas" you are talking about that I am so big about it being my own. Haha, if you're talking about hantaran kecik is my "original idea", sorry to tell you that it is just common sense. I am not desperate to cover up my budget wedding, I am PROUD. I can tell people like YOU that no matter how budget you think my wedding is, I feed my guests with food cooked by Gurame, have a wedding by the sea, wear baju by The Wedding Brocade, have a ring customized making me the only one in the world who has it and only spend 10k which I have paid in FULL with my hard earned money! I tak mengharapkan duit salam to pay for my wedding or my parents/relatives to sponsor part of my wedding.

https://www.google.com.sg/search?q=rock+klasik+vol+15+cd&biw=1366&bih=626&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=A5yVVIOCO8TluQSN0IHACQ&ved=0CAgQ_AUoAQ
You mean my wedding card looks something like this? Darling, these records were SOLD in stores which I am pretty sure you know since your bapak own one. So no matter how tacky YOU think it is, this design made it out there and guess what? People still buy it. On a totally different note, thank god we are not related in any way. It would be a waste of money to bagi makan to people like you yang mulut tak der insurance at my wedding.

You can have a go at my wedding for all you want. There is nothing that I would have done differently. Anyway, I have nothing against grand weddings either. Just that, it irks me how unrealistic some people are to spend money they don’t have and be in debt after the wedding. Nak kahwin, jangan meyusahkan orang including yourself. Jangan kerja nak mampos for money to be spend on one day and you deprive yourself from happy things. I saved for my wedding but still could go Bangkok (taking SQ), Bandung, KL and Krabi, and still can buy shitloads of stuffs.

So awak jangan terasa sangat. Kalau nak kutuk, buat homework dulu. I am usually nice, even to people who have different opinions from me. But awak ni da datang rumah orang (which in this case my blog) uninvited, mulut asalboleh tembak. Kalau cakap awak bodoh, nanti tak boleh terima.

Okay, I am very busy. But if you masih nak comment bodoh-bodoh, amuse me. Kalau I terlalu free, I will reply you. Kalau tak, disini sahaja. Just take note, I have printscreen your comment just in case you realised how bodoh you sounded and nak delete. Tapi ingat, nak terror jangan kat keyboard je ok?

xo, RR.

Then when I post my part 1 reply, I saw this:

The author being Dancing Dollies aka the Keyboard Warrior. I don't delete comments.

Baru cakap kan? You know the saying "Kecik-kecik tak nak mampos, besar-besar susahkan orang." Ah ni lah the epitome of the saying.